I went from a "brutal breakup" to supporting thousands of people to explore their sexuality and strengthen their relationships.

But, I need to be straight up with you...

If you're seeking Tantric sex tips and tricks, or you think a Kundalini awakening is your answer, I will disappoint you any day of the week. What I will do, is take the mystery out of why relationships become stuck, how you lose sexual attraction towards your partner and what do do about it.


My teaching style is well-grounded, practical and realistic, I've been known to drop an f-bomb alongside my very questionable cheeky sense of humour. 

I have a wealth of knowledge and decades of lived experience that no university degree could even compare. However, I do not mince my words, I do not bullshit or talk crap, nor do I do cupcake coaching, and I will never bamboozle you with spiritual mumbo jumbo.

I will lovingly tell you what you need to hear, even if stings a little.


I have lived a life that will INTRIGUE some and absolutely HORRIFY others
-both make me smile!

I loved him, and wholeheartedly; however, I had no idea that love was NOT enough - and I wanted to know 'why'!​

​For me, there was no 'let's work this out'. There was no sticky conversation at the kitchen table with tears, tissues and a cup of tea. Or wine. There wasn't the opportunity to 'fix' what I didn't even know was broken. Nope. He called it. He was done. After ten years in an open but committed relationship, there was someone else. I was told it was over. I was told to deal with it. I was told to pack a suitcase, and I was told to get out. I was dropped off at a friend's house, no car, no job, nowhere to live, broke, broken, bewildered, all while experiencing pain that I never knew existed. Then the realisation of losing the children that I had raised as my own kicked in, and so did the darkness of deep grief, the trauma was so severe that my hair fell out and the tears were uncontrollable for an entire year. 


My break-up was not only abrupt, but it was also fucking brutal.


My pain is now a passion, and I am genuinely grateful for my beautifully broken heart because this is why I am so compassionate about protecting yours!


My Professional Bio...

Over the years countless hours has been invested experiencing various modalities around the country and overseas connecting with world-renown teachers of the highest quality and will continue to be a student forever:


  • Certified Somatic Sex Educator (Institute of Somatic Sexology)

  • Certified Sexological Bodyworker (Institute of Somatic Sexology)

  • Certified Facilitator of The Wheel of Consent (Dr Betty Martin)

  • Certified Intimacy & Attraction Facilitator (Michaela Boehm & Steve James)

  • Certified Non-Linear Movement Method Teacher Training (Michaela Boehm & Steve James)

  • Certified Wild Woman's Circle Teacher Training (Michaela Boehm & Steve James)

  • Certified Level 5 Kahuna Bodywork & Massage (Mette Institute) 

  • Certified Urban Tantra Teacher (Barbara Carrellas)

  • Diploma of Professional Counselling (AIPC)


Over the years, I’ve developed a reputation for making relationships to make sense.

A Little About Yours Truly:

  • My teaching style is not polished or perfect, but no one can deny my passion;

  • Grew up in a small town with a population of less than 500;

  • My friends are my family;

  • The funniest and kindest person I know is my mum;

  • Highly intuitive;

  • I am unable to train my face or my finger;

  • I am a very good judge of character, please refer to the previous point;

  • It's a blessing and a curse that I call it how I see it;

  • I am unbelievably rich with an abundance of friendship spanning 30+ years;

  • Lies will never get me into trouble, but the truth often does;


Why should you learn from
someone who doesn't talk crap?

Nothing grinds my gears more than the overnight hyper-sexualised Tantrika flashing her fanny 'for likes' or Tantric fuck-tard who did a weekend workshop once and is now named 'Rainbow-Mocha-Sunshine' and is a hew-aged guru!

Always research your teachers, teachers.

I know you want your current or future relationship to change. That's why you're here.

That's why you don't want to concede that losing the spark is expected.

That's why your "date night" needs to involve more than just going out for dinner.

That's why you've invested your entire heart and soul into making this relationship last.

By reading this far, you've proven that you're willing to get curious and make changes – but I get it. You want to ensure that you're not wasting your time and money.

You want realistic, practical teachings that work and MAKE SENSE!

You want to feel confident that you and your current or future partner will finally be speaking the same language so that you don't suffer from death by resentment, and trust me, I know how that feels!

Let me help you make a change...