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I went from a "brutal breakup" to supporting thousands of people to explore their sexuality and strengthen their relationships.
But, I need to be straight up with you...
If you are hunting for some tantric sex tips or a Kundalini awakening. Sorry to burst your bubble, but you won't find that here. Relationships are already complicated enough as it is. Love alone won't keep things satisfying and fulfilling, and that's a fact.
I may not have a fancy degree from a university, but I've got decades of experience and a wealth of knowledge that'll put any textbook to shame. And here's a little heads up - I don't sugarcoat things, talk crap or dish out cupcake coaching. And don't even get me started on spiritual mumbo jumbo - I'm not here to bamboozle you with that nonsense.
I'll give you what I needed to know when my world fell apart. So, if you're ready to hear what you need to hear, I'm here to lovingly help you, even if it stings a little.
I have lived a life that will INTRIGUE some and absolutely HORRIFY others
- and both make me smile!
I loved him, and wholeheartedly; however, I had no idea that love was NOT enough - and I wanted to know 'why'!
For me, there were no tearful conversations over a cup of tea or wine at the kitchen table. No, there was no chance to fix what I didn't even know was broken. After ten years of a committed and open relationship, he dropped the bomb. It was over. He had someone else. And just like that, I was told to pack a suitcase and get out. I had no car, no job, and nowhere to live. Grief-stricken and bewildered because I loved this man wholeheartedly. My heart was shattered into a million pieces, and I felt a pain I never knew existed. But the real agony came with the realization that I wouldn't be able to see the children I had raised as my own.
My breakup was abrupt, and let me tell you, it was fucking brutal.
Despite the pain, I am grateful for my delicate and beautifully broken heart. It changed me forever, and I learned to mend from that trauma. And that's why - I am deeply compassionate about protecting your heart because I know firsthand how painful heartbreak can be.
My Professional Bio...
Over the years countless hours has been invested experiencing various modalities around the country and overseas connecting with world-renown teachers of the highest quality and will continue to be a student forever:
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Certified Somatic Sex Educator (Institute of Somatic Sexology)
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Certified Sexological Bodyworker (Institute of Somatic Sexology)
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Certified Facilitator of The Wheel of Consent (Dr Betty Martin)
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Certified Intimacy & Attraction Facilitator (Michaela Boehm & Steve James)
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Certified Non-Linear Movement Method Teacher Training (Michaela Boehm & Steve James)
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Certified Wild Woman's Circle Teacher Training (Michaela Boehm & Steve James)
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Certified Level 5 Kahuna Bodywork & Massage (Mette Institute)
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Certified Urban Tantra Teacher (Barbara Carrellas)
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Diploma of Professional Counselling (AIPC)
Over the years, I’ve developed a reputation for making relationships make sense without any nonsense.
The sassy facts about yours truly...
Teaching isn't my forte, but my passion for it is undeniable. I'm fortunate to have an abundance of amazing friends who have stepped up to be my family. I'm a very loving and loyal person until given a reason not to be. Maybe it's because my mum is the kindest, funniest and strongest person I know, and I've picked up a thing or two from her. Like my mother, I'm also highly intuitive and have a good sense of character, but unfortunately, I cannot control my face. Trust me; I've tried; it's a blessing and a curse. I love being a black sheep and connecting with people with unique real-life stories over laughter, wine and chocolate. And while lies never get me into trouble, the truth often does.
Why should you learn from
someone who doesn't talk crap?
Nothing grinds my gears more than the overnight hyper-sexualized Instagram Tantrika flashing their fanny for "followers" or the Tantric fuck-tard who attended a weekend workshop or two and now disguising re-traumatizing people as break-throughs while smelling of tea tree oil and going by their guru name of 'Rainbow Mocha Sunshine'!
Seriously, eye roll anyone?
Always do your research on your teachers, teachers! Don't be afraid to ask them questions (and LOTS of them), and if their answers sound like a pile of fluff and fairytales, you might have a pleasant experience, but you won't learn sustainable skills.
Now, I know you're here because you want your relationships to be spicy and lasting, and that's where I come in!
Let's turn your date nights into something more than just dinner - because, let's face it, that doesn't create any erotic friction! Specific components are required to have flirty fun, fulfilling, and flavourful sex so you don't get stuck on rinse and repeat.
Don't let your relationship go stale or throw it away just because it is fractured - as my ex did. With two willing people, you can make changes and improvements with some guidance.
I respect that you're here because you're willing to make those changes. You want practical teachings that make sense and work. You want to feel confident that you and your partner are speaking the same language so that you don't end up with death by resentment - and boy, do I know how that feels!
Let me help you make a real change without all the fluff and bullshit!