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I went from a "brutal breakup" to supporting thousands of people to explore their sexuality and strengthen their relationships.

But, I need to be straight up with you...

If you're seeking Tantric sex tips and tricks or think a Kundalini awakening is your answer, I will disappoint you any day of the week. Relationships are hard enough, so I will take the mystery out of why we become stuck because love alone will not keep the relationship satisfying and fulfilling.

With a wealth of knowledge and with decades of experience that no university degree could compare with. However, please note that I do not mince my words, I do not bullshit or talk crap, nor do I do cupcake coaching, and trust me I will never bamboozle you with spiritual mumbo jumbo.

I give people what I wished was given to me when my world was falling apart and I will lovingly tell you what you need to hear, even if it stings a little.


I have lived a life that will INTRIGUE some and absolutely HORRIFY others
- and both make me smile!

I loved him, and wholeheartedly; however, I had no idea that love was NOT enough - and I wanted to know 'why'!​

​For me, there was no 'let's work this out'. There was no sticky conversation at the kitchen table with tears, tissues and a cup of tea. Or wine. There wasn't the opportunity to 'fix' what I didn't even know was broken. Nope. He called it. He was done. After ten years in an open but committed relationship, there was someone else. I was told it was over. I was told to deal with it. I was told to pack a suitcase, and I was told to get out. I was dropped off at a friend's house, no car, no job, nowhere to live, broke, broken, bewildered, all while experiencing pain that I never knew existed. Then the realisation not seeing the children that I had raised as my own kicked in, and so did the darkness of deep grief.


My break-up was not only abrupt, but it was also fucking brutal.


And, this is, my why! You can heal from this kind of pain, but it changes you, and forever. I am genuinely grateful for my beautifully broken heart; yes, I said beautifully broken heart because this is why I am so deeply compassionate about protecting yours!


My Professional Bio...

Over the years countless hours has been invested experiencing various modalities around the country and overseas connecting with world-renown teachers of the highest quality and will continue to be a student forever:


  • Certified Somatic Sex Educator (Institute of Somatic Sexology)

  • Certified Sexological Bodyworker (Institute of Somatic Sexology)

  • Certified Facilitator of The Wheel of Consent (Dr Betty Martin)

  • Certified Intimacy & Attraction Facilitator (Michaela Boehm & Steve James)

  • Certified Non-Linear Movement Method Teacher Training (Michaela Boehm & Steve James)

  • Certified Wild Woman's Circle Teacher Training (Michaela Boehm & Steve James)

  • Certified Level 5 Kahuna Bodywork & Massage (Mette Institute) 

  • Certified Urban Tantra Teacher (Barbara Carrellas)

  • Diploma of Professional Counselling (AIPC)


Over the years, I’ve developed a reputation for making relationships make sense without any nonsense.

A little about yours truly:

  • For me teaching does not come naturally but no one can deny my passion;

  • Grew up in a small town with a population of less than 500;

  • I am disgustingly rich in the friendship department;

  • The funniest and kindest person I know is my mum;

  • I'm not a one row of chocolate type of person;

  • I'm not a one glass of wine person either;

  • I am unable to train my face (I've tried);

  • Highly intuitive and a very good judge of character (please refer to the previous point);

  • The two previous points is a blessing and a curse;

  • Lies never get me into trouble, but the truth often does;

  • I am extremely loyal until given a reason not to be;


Why should you learn from
someone who doesn't talk crap?

Nothing grinds my gears more than the overnight hyper-sexualized Tantrika flashing her fanny for 'followers' or some Tantric fuck-tard who did a weekend workshop once and is now a new-aged Tantric guru (insert rolled eyes here)!

Always research your teachers, teachers. Always ask your teachers questions and if their answers sound like a whole heap of fluff and fairytales just know you will have a nice experience, which is great, but you will NOT learn sustainable skills.

I know you want your current or future relationship to be different. That's why you're here. That's why you don't want to concede that losing the spark and boring relationships is to be expected.


Teaching people about sexual attraction and confidence 'the spark' is my jam, that's why I'm here....YOU are my people!

Let's changes your "date night" to involve more than merely going out for dinner - this does not create erotic friction, it does the complete opposite!


Let's have better sex that is full of flavour, fun and fulfilling - not the same ole same ole. I will teach you some new ways of connecting with all the flavours.

That's why you've invested into making this relationship last, don't let it go stale or throw away what's fractured but not completely broken - like my ex did.

By reading this far, you've proven that you're willing to get curious and make changes – but I get it. You want to ensure that you're not wasting your time and money, this I know from personal experience.

You want realistic, practical teachings that work and MAKE SENSE!

You want to feel confident that you and your current or future partner will finally be speaking the same language so that you don't suffer from death by resentment, and trust me, I know how that feels!

Let me help you make a change...without the bullshit!

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