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I went from a brutal breakup to a sex & relationship expert
Let me be straight up with you: If you're hunting for tantric sex tips or a Kundalini awakening, you won't find that here.
No sugarcoating. No cupcake coaching. No spiritual mumbo jumbo.
Just honest insights to help you understand sex and relationships when others don't.
I'll lovingly support you by telling you what you need to hear not what you want to hear. Even if it stings a little.
My Professional Bio...
I've spent years studying with world-renowned teachers and will continue to be a student forever.
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Certified Somatic Sex Educator (Institute of Somatic Sexology)
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Certified Sexological Bodyworker (Institute of Somatic Sexology)
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Certified Facilitator of The Wheel of Consent (Dr Betty Martin)
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Certified Intimacy & Attraction Facilitator (Michaela Boehm & Steve James)
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Certified Non-Linear Movement Method Teacher Training (Michaela Boehm & Steve James)
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Certified Wild Woman's Circle Teacher Training (Michaela Boehm & Steve James)
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Certified Level 5 Kahuna Bodywork & Massage (Mette Institute)
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Certified Urban Tantra Teacher (Barbara Carrellas)
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Diploma of Professional Counselling (AIPC)
My why!
How I got here...
I've been devastated by love more than once.
First I was blindsided: Ten years together. Thought we were solid. Clearly we weren't I was just the last one to know. He had someone else. It ended abruptly and fucking brutally. I grieved the life I thought we were building and the loss of the kids I'd raised as my own and never got to see again.
Second, by death: A lover of 14 years who showed me unconditional love in its deepest form left this earth in September 2025. What we had was unconventional, but no one can deny what we had was real love and deeply connected. My love for him still grows even though he's not here.
That's why I do this.
I know how precious real intimacy is and how much it hurts when it's gone.
Why should you learn from someone who doesn't talk crap?
Nothing grinds my gears more than the overnight hyper-sexualised Instagram Tantrika flashing their fanny for followers, or some Tantric fuck-tard who attended a weekend workshop and now disguises re-traumatizing people as breakthroughs while smelling of tea tree oil and going by their guru name of "Rainbow Mocha Sunshine."
Seriously.
Always do your research on your teachers' teachers. Don't be afraid to ask questions and LOTS of them. If answers sound like a pile of fluff and fairytales, you might have a pleasant experience, but you won't learn sustainable long-term skills.
You're here because you want practical teachings that make sense and work. You want to feel confident that you and your partner are speaking the same language.
Let me help you make a real change without all the fluff and bullshit.